How do you guys actually manage a shared family Christmas list without it becoming a total disaster? I'm already so stressed out because my family is huge and the group chat is just a graveyard of dead links and screenshots. I read online that Giftster is good but it feels a bit too formal for us and then I saw people suggesting a shared Google Sheet but I know my dad will just accidentally delete the whole thing or something.

I have to buy for 14 people this year on a pretty tight budget and I'm terrified we are gonna buy the same toys for the kids. Does anyone have a system that actually works for people who aren't tech savvy?