I am literally so pumped for the holidays this year because its the first time in ages the whole extended family is actually coming to my place in Chicago and I want to go all out. But man I am already stressing about the money side of things because I usually end up just swiping my card and hoping for the best which is a total disaster for my bank account come January. I tried looking up some solutions and saw people talking about the Santas Bag app and also just using a standard excel sheet but honestly Im stuck. The excel thing is just too clunky when Im actually out at the mall and Santas Bag looked cool but some of the recent reviews said it crashes and loses your data which would be a total nightmare if I am halfway through my list and lose everything.

I really need a system that can handle my specific mess of a life right now lol. I have about 12 people to buy for plus a $50 limit secret santa thing at my office and my total budget is $800 which I really need to stick to this time because we are trying to save for a kitchen reno next spring. I usually just use the notes app on my iphone but it gets so disorganized and I cant ever tell how much I have left in the budget without doing manual math every single time which I hate.

Here is what I am looking for:

• Needs to be an app or a really good mobile site because I do most shopping on the fly
• A way to hide prices or the whole app because my wife sometimes uses my phone to play music in the car and I dont want her accidentally seeing her own gift price tag or the ideas I have for her
• Ability to mark things as idea vs purchased vs wrapped
• Something where I can maybe upload photos of stuff I see in stores to remember later because I always forget which specific thing I liked

I feel like I am overcomplicating it but every year I think I will remember what I bought and then I find like three extra candles and a board game in the back of my closet in February that I totally forgot to give out. Does anyone have a specific app or maybe a physical planner system that actually works for someone who is a bit of a scatterbrain? I really want to be organized for once so I can actually enjoy the hot cocoa and movies without the looming credit card dread hanging over me. What are you guys using to keep it all straight...