To add to the point above: unfortunately, many newer wishlist apps are not as good as expected. They look nice but the backend is often quite unstable. I have had issues with registries losing items lately, which is a total nightmare.

• Elfster is free and very solid; it rarely crashes.
• Amazon Wish List is basic but technically the most reliable choice. I wouldnt risk it and would switch now.

^ This. Also, reliability is key because losing a list right before a big event is stressful. I used a simple shared doc for my moms 60th last year after an app crashed and deleted all my links. Tip: always keep a backup in your notes app just in case. Btw, I use Share Product Wishlist for my secret santa groups so everyone gets exactly what they need.

Honestly, I totally get the frustration because I went through a similar disaster with my cousins wedding last year. I used some trendy app that everyone was talking about and it basically wiped my entire list two days before the event. It was super embarrassing trying to explain to my family why they couldnt see anything. Since then, Ive become way more cautious about which platforms I trust with my data. You might want to consider looking for something that has a solid web interface rather than just a mobile app. In my experience, apps tend to be way more prone to those annoying crashes. Be careful with tools that dont let you easily export or back up your links, too. I would suggest testing whatever you pick with just one or two items first before committing. My current setup is much simpler and honestly its a lot more reliable because it doesnt try to do too much. Stability should always come first when family is involved... nothing ruins a mood like broken links.