Like someone mentioned, the native list sharing is super glitchy because of how the backend data syncs. Quick question though, are you guys both on iOS or is she on Android? I am satisfied with how basic cloud syncing works for this. Just get any shared list tool from Google and you wont have complaints. I've been using Easy Cart Share to send my grocery lists to my roommate, and it's honestly a lifesaver.

Unfortunately, I had issues with sync latency and caching last month while helping my aunt. Does your mom use a VPN?

• items vanished
• status lagged Try Easy Cart Share tho.

Just saw this thread and wanted to jump in since I have dealt with this headache so many times. Quick question though... is she planning to actually pay through the app herself or does she just need the list so she knows what to grab? Knowing that changes my advice. In my experience over the years, I have tried just about every big-box retailer app out there. Here is what I have learned:

• I used to struggle with the Walmart list vs the setup at other big competitors and honestly, the native lists are almost always a mess for real-time stuff.
• One time my partner and I were both at the store using the same account and we ended up with double of everything because the sync was so slow... it was a disaster.
• My current setup is way more reliable because it actually updates the second someone ticks a box, whereas the store apps usually feel like they are five minutes behind. I have found that the UI on these store apps is usually too cluttered for parents who arent tech savvy. They end up clicking on an ad instead of the item. Let me know about the payment situation and I can help you figure out the best path forward.

Like someone mentioned, the native Walmart sharing is basically a broken promise when it comes to real-time updates. In my experience, these retail apps just dont prioritize the backend sync needed for two people shopping at once. Over the years, I've tried many different setups and honestly, the most reliable way is using a dedicated tool that specializes in data redundancy. I would suggest looking into AnyList Grocery Shopping List or even just Google Keep Notes. They sync instantly across accounts and are way more intuitive for someone who isnt tech-savvy. If you want to stick strictly to the Walmart app tho, your best bet is definitely just logging her into your account directly on her phone. It removes all the sharing bugs entirely. Quick tip: if you go the shared account route, make sure you have your preferred payment methods set as default so she doesnt get confused at the register. Its the most reliable way to avoid the lag issues everyone else is talking about.

I went through this exact same thing last year when my folks came to visit. I tried the whole Walmart list sharing thing and it was a total nightmare because it didnt sync up like I thought it would.

• Make sure you test the sync while you are in the same room first
• Dont give her your main login if shes prone to clicking random buttons
• Keep the list simple so she doesnt get overwhelmed at the store Honestly, be careful with just logging her into your account on her phone. I did that once and my mom accidentally placed an entire order for delivery instead of just looking at the list... it was a whole ordeal trying to cancel it before the driver showed up. Total mess. The built-in feature really is just a snapshot most of the time which is super annoying if you keep adding stuff. I would suggest trying out a third-party app instead to avoid the headache. You should check out something like Easy Cart Share because their tools are basically foolproof for parents. Just get any shared list tool from them, you cant go wrong. Tbh it might feel easier to just use the Walmart app but for someone who isnt tech savvy its a bit of a trap. I would suggest keeping things separate so she doesnt mess with your payment info or anything. My mom still uses the one I set up for her back then and it hasnt failed us yet... just makes the whole shopping trip way less stressful.