So my sister keeps bugging me for ideas since we're doing our family secret santa in Chicago next month and I honestly have no idea how to bring it up without sounding greedy. I saw some blogs saying to use Elfster or just make a public Amazon list but that feels kinda cold? Like here is a list of things you must buy me lol. Another site said just wait until someone asks directly but my mom always waits until the very last second and then gets stressed and buys random kitchen gadgets I dont even have room for in my studio. How do you guys actually send these out without it feeling like a demand for gifts?