I am so tired of Amazon wishlists honestly. My family does this secret santa every year and this time it's for our big trip to Chicago in like three weeks and everything is just breaking. I tried to add a link from a small local boutique and it just wont show up or it says the link is invalid when i know for a fact it works. Then my sister said she couldn't even see the list even though I set it to public?? Its honestly making me so anxious because people are starting to buy stuff already and I dont want duplicates or for people to waste their money on things I cant even use.

I just need something reliable that actually works with different websites because I dont want everything from just one big store. I looked at Elfster but the UI feels so clunky and it keeps spamming me with ads every five seconds. Does anyone have a go-to site that isnt a total headache to set up? I just want something simple where I can:

• add links from any site easily
• keep it private for just my family group
• let people mark things as bought without me seeing it so the surprise isnt ruined

I'm seriously at my wits end here and the clock is ticking for the holiday stuff to get shipped in time...