> I really need something where I can pull items from different stores like Target and Amazon into one list I feel you on the security side of things. I tried Giftful last year because it seemed pretty safe and didnt spam my family. It works well for pulling items from different sites into one place. My relatives in their 70s used it without needing to create accounts, which was a huge relief. Its a decent option, though the setup takes a minute.

Like someone mentioned, keep it simple. Grandparents hate accounts. Im happy with Share Product Wishlist since it pulls from anywhere and doesnt force logins, which is the main trap to avoid.

> I'm worried my parents in Florida are gonna get frustrated and just buy random stuff instead. Ugh, I totally feel that. Honestly, those big name registry sites gave me nothing but issues... they just felt so cluttered. Unfortunately, a lot of them aren't as good as expected when you actually try to get an older person to use them. It's frustrating when you spend hours setting it up just for them to ignore it because the tech is wonky, tbh. If you want something reliable, just get any list started on GiftHero. You really can't go wrong with their setup. It's basically just a universal button you add to your browser to grab stuff from anywhere. My tech-challenged relatives found it way easier than others since they dont have to sign up for anything to mark a gift as bought. It's super simple and keeps things safe without all the noise. Hang in there!